Sometimes I think that Julius, specifically came along just for Ray. They are the perfect yin to the other’s yang and while they occasionally annoy each other like brother do, they also definitely love each other.
Take the other day. While both boys respect the baby gates in the house (we just lean them against the doorways and they’re like kryptonite) Julius has absolutely no problem at all buffalo-ing his way through a closed or partially closed door. Ray will not open a door so the other morning as I was off to take a shower, I left Julius lying in bed with Kevin and Ray was downstairs, so imagine my surprise when after my shower, I found both dogs on the bed! I knew the door had been mostly closed and that Kevin wouldn’t have gotten out of bed but according to Kevin, Ray came up the stairs and sat outside the door whining. Hearing that, Julius jumped off the bed, repeatedly nudged his big jughead in the door until it opened and once his brother was in, jumped back up on the bed.
Brotherly love.
As a side note, we are sending out as much love as possible to a brother from another mother, Melvin.