Gotcha Day Celebration!

On December 1, 2011 Ray and his siblings, who were to be dubbed “The Sparkle Puppies” were born.  The one’s who survived are all in loving homes and this is Ray’s story. 

I was fortunate enough to be present the night Ray was born.  Not many adopters can say that and I know how special that is.  I helped rescue his little family and I feel a connection to all of them to this day which I’m sure will last a lifetime.  When we finally knew we were going to commit to adopting one of these puppies, what followed was the longest seven weeks of my life.  I got updates and pictures of the litter, but in the early days, I wasn’t completely sure which pup we’d end up adopting. 
True, the moment I laid eyes on Ray, I thought, “I want the green guy.”  He was nearly covered with …something green and icky, but he was the most adorable little piggy.  Kimmel, now known as Chloe, was the only surviving girl of the litter, so if we decided to adopt based on gender, she would have been the choice.  But when it comes right down to it, I think Ray was always our boy.

There were definitely challenges all along the way.  It took a while before Sparkles was nursing the litter but we breathed a sigh of relief when she finally did.  One of the babies above (the smaller black one) was nearly frozen when rescued wouldn’t thrive so we supplemented with food but he didn’t survive the month of December.  Finally when all were settled in, Sparkles began guarding her food from the puppies. 

Because they were on mushy solid food early and by six and a half to seven weeks weren’t nursing, I got the ok to pick up my baby.

The week we were to pick up Ray, I scurried out to do some shopping, after all, everybody knows these little short haired babies would get cold without some coverings.  Let me tell you, by mid to late January, there are some pretty darned good sales on dog clothes and just by guessing sizes, I was able to procure an impressive wardrobe for one so young.  I didn’t, however, bring the clothes with me and I went to pick him up on a very snowy Friday night.  I plowed slowly over the roads in my truck, arriving at his Foster Mama’s home well after dark.  We chatted, signed paperwork and when it was time to carry my naked piggy out into the cold, I whipped my pashmina off and wraped him in it and cuddled my baby on my lap for the drive home.

When we got him home, I will admit that he had a couple of differentoutfits on and maybe I should have let him get a little more settled before making him be my dress up doll.

This one was only worn once before being donated but the one below became his regular outfit until he outgrew it. 


That first evening, Ray was mostly interested in snuggling and that was to set a standard for the next twelve months of his life.  We were pleasantly shocked to find that he slept in his crate as if he owned it and not once whimpered or cried at night.  During the day, if we were together, he was on my lap-in the early days that mostly consisted of me holding a nylabone or some other chew toy and trying to keep him directed there rather than on fingers, toes or anything else that moved and seemed like fair game.  My six pound puppy grew up, right before my eyes and from the comfort of Mama’s lap and 74 pounds later, he can usually still be found there.

This past year has been full of ups and downs, but on reflection, the ups have been great enough to outweigh the downs.  Recently as I bent down to ask for a kiss, I realized I expected a kiss.  I knew I would get a big, sloppy, Pit bull kiss and would not get a lungey over excited shark mouth kiss. 

I’m crazy about this boy, and I have something to declare.  I haven’t said it.  Ever.  Not once in the past year have I said this.  It isn’t anything to be said lightly and it can’t be unsaid. 

Ray is my heart dog.

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Time Passages

How do you mark the passage of time?  I tend to use actual markers and then calculate rather than just knowing.  “What the heck is this chick babbling about?” is probably going through your mind right now, but bear with me. 

In 2011 we put our house on the market and had to fill out the usual disclosure forms.  How long have we owned this home?  How old is the roof? The doors? The windows, etc.  I usually have to count the years in relation to what grade my daughter was in at the time and then count up from there.  There is usually a specific time marker for that I can use for counting, depending on the situation.

How old are my cats?  I “met” Boo Kitty in 1998 and Kevin had seen her in the fields around his house for nearly a year before that.  He doesn’t ever remember seeing her as a kitten, ergo she must be at least 15, going on 16 this year.  She is Jae’s mom and I have a picture of him from 1999 when he was a kitten.  For Miko, I had adoption papers.

Boo Kitty enjoying her retirement.

As I was reading a post about some past fosters, I realized that I was able to mark a passage of time by who a certain foster was when I began following a blog.  I found that I’ve been reading some longer than I imagined, but others were harder to put a time reference on.  I believe most of my reading/following/lurking began in 2011.  I remember when Ginger Rogers made her debut in  Blogville but I also know that I once spent the better part of a weekend pouring over archives.  Time flies.

One of the longest stretches of time for me in recent history would be the six or seven weeks while we waited for Ray.  Born on December 1, 2011, I don’t think it was any more than a week later that we committed to adopting a “Sparkle puppy.”  Taken into an already full foster situation with Smiling K9’s, this little family was slated to go to another foster/rescue once they were able to be transported, so we needed to make our intentions known early and stick to them.  We couldn’t commit to a puppy, have it stay and then reverse our commitment.  Not to worry, though, because as the littles were growing, their foster mama/rescuer was becoming  less able to send them and she ended up adopting them out of her own rescue.  Good news for us, as we were still doing the male/female debate.  The moment I laid eyes on Ray, I knew I wanted “the little green guy” but the hubby wasn’t sure about gender. 

Once we had committed, the longest seven-ish weeks of my life began…

Come back tomorrow to read about Ray’s Gotcha Day and celebrat with us by sharing your Gotcha day story and joining our Blog Hop!

See you then!

Wordless Wednesday

Coming Soon….

 
The Ray-Ray Gotcha Day Blog Hop Celebration. 
January 18-22, 2013
 
 
I know that is a random time to have it…mostly over a weekend, and the majority of us don’t post on the weekend.  Well, I really have no huge rhyme or reason as to the timing.  I might start it Thursday night for those of you who are late night readers and posters. 
 
Feel free to share and cross post our little sign.  The more the merrier!


Dance with Me

Ok, well that might be a little difficult, but how about a Blog Hop?  I’ve participated in a couple here and there and found them to be fun and a great way to discover new blogs.  So, what’s the occasion, you ask?  Well, January 20th is Ray’s Gotcha day, so I would like to invite all bloggers who happen by to attend our Gotcha Celebration Blog Hop.  We will actually start the Hop on Friday the 18th because it was a Friday night that I brought him home and we will end it (I think) Tuesday or Wednesday of the following week.

I’ll hammer out the details soon, so put on your party hat, your party ears or whatever party accessory you choose and think about the events around your own Gotcha Day.  Did you go through an application process?  Were you nervous that your pup/kittie/other might be adopted out from under  your nose?  What did you do to prepare for the homecoming?  What was the day like? 

I think you get the idea.  Write about your own Gotcha Day or perhaps that of one of your fosters.

We hope to have all of you at the hop.  Interested?

Thank you, My Dear ****UPDATED****

We are coming up on our one year blogaversary which actually is nearly the same as Ray’s adoptaversary, or his “gotcha” day.  I began creeping on avidly reading blogs way before starting  this one and had grand plans of how this blog would be structured.  In my mind it modelled it after Love and a Six Foot Leash or Our Waldo Bungie which were two of the blogs we first started following pretty regularly.  I had hopes of fostering one dog at a time while possibly not even having one of my own.  As you can see, that isn’t exactly how this past year turned out. 

That’s ok, though, because when this little piggy entered my heart and home, I decided we could still write about our trials, tribulations, successess and silliness and still be good breed ambassadors.  While fostering is not in the cards right now, we can still do our part in other ways and we just have to be satisfied with that for now.

But along with having blogged here for nearly a year now, as I indicated, we were mostly creepers/lurkers/avid but silent readers so when we finally stepped out of our shell and started “making friends” we were blown away with the kindness of our little community.  In fact, those beautiful gals over at Pitlandia have nominated us for another award for which we are humbly thankful.

“Liebster means Dearest in German, so the Liebster Blog Award is the Dearest Blog Award. It’s an award intended to recognize worthy, lesser known blogs and to help expose their work. Of course, accepting The Liebster Award comes with a few rules!”

Liebster Blog Award Rules:
These are the rules as have been given to me:

  1. Thank the giver and link back to the blogger who gave it to you
  2. Share five things about yourself
  3. Answer five questions presented by Pitlandia
  4. Ask five new questions to your nominated bloggers
  5. Reveal your top five picks {with less than 200 readers} and let them know by leaving a comment on their blog
  6. Copy and paste the award on your blog
  7. Hope that the people you’ve sent the award to forward it to their five favorite up-and-coming bloggers and keep it going!

So, merci, Pitlandia.  We are honored.

Five things about me that I hope are not repeats:

  1. I have very few things that are “favorties,” or actually I have too many.  Since I change my mind depending on circumstances, I might have a different favorite color, song, flavor, etc. at any given moment.
  2. I can be found in heels about 75% of the time.  Even when walking dogs for the SPCA.
  3. I love to shop, can suss out a bargain and really only pay full price for a few things…mostly animal related.
  4. I love old movies.
  5. I’m shy, but go to great lenghts to fight it.

Five things about Ray:

  1. Ray rarely barks.
  2. He also rarely drools.
  3. At 13 months old, he still squats to pee…and I love that.
  4. Sometimes he is overbearing when he meets new people/dogs and other times he tucks his tail and piddles.
  5. He is the best cuddler.

The Five questions posed by Pitlandia:

  1. What’s a book (training, behavior, fiction, etc.) that you would most recommend to a new dog owner? This is a hard one.  I’ve gleaned so much knowledge from blogs like the ones mentioned above, Animal Farm Foundation, and the BAD RAP website.   I think it is important to do as much research as possible before committing to an animal.
  2. What’s your favorite command or trick that you’ve taught your dog? The best one is “go to your mat” because it is handy in so many situations.  Sometimes he “offers” that one on his own in order to get what he wants.
  3. What’s one goal that you have for your dog in 2013? Post more, learn more, do more.
  4. Where’s your favorite place that you’ve traveled to? I’m not much of a traveller and most of our vacations have centered around where the good malls are or what pro baseball or football game we want to attend.  With that being said, I love Baltimore.
  5. Do you prefer coffee or tea? Coffee…nothing else matters.


  

Now here are my nominees.  First I have to say that some of these will be repeats of Pitlandia’s and some may not be that new or have fewer than 200 folllowers but bear with me:

  1. My Two Pitties is about Handsome Norman and Lovely Kaya and boasts some incredibly beautiful scenery in the photography.  Each visit to their blog is like a vacation for the senses.
  2. It all Started with a Pitbull also boasts two of the cutest dogs in the world.  Hades has the most amazing coloring, Braylon has a seriously cute set of ears, and their current foster, Madden can often be found getting her swim on in their pool!
  3. Pocket Pittie in the City is a new read for me, but oh-be-still-my-heart at how adorable those two dogs are. 
  4. Mr. & Mrs. & Nola Kisses has been around all of last year but is a new read for me as well.  I’ve been thoroughly enjoying reading up on Nola and their now former foster, Anna.  I’m looking forward to more.
  5. I literally just found this blog, Of Pit Bulls and Patience.  The name alone drew me in and I’m eager to go back and read some more.

So, there you have it, my list of five, but I think you should also go visit Remy because he is handsome like Ray and like Ray, lives with kitties who kind of hate him.  🙂

    What a spaz!  I forgot to add my five questions!  Here they are.

    1. Most of us have a common theme in the titles of our blog, but tell us: how did you come by the name of yours?
    2. What is the be-all end-all favorite treat of your dog(s)?
    3. What has been the biggest challenge of dog ownership?
    4. And what has been the biggest reward?
    5. What is your favorite “me” activity?

    Shaking off the Rust

    We need to refocus.  When Ray was 10 weeks old we started attending Puppy class, which while helped immensely, it became more beneficial for me to hold him and observe class then try to teach him the behaviors at home.  To say that he was the class clown would be an understatement.  Later we had some inidividual sessions with a primo private trainer which gave us some impressive tools to work with as well.  The problem with both is …me.  I got lazy with our training and as the primary care and training giver at home, I let Ray get unfocused as well.  Now it’s time for us (me) to get back on track and stimulate that overactive mind his and work on some physical and mental challenges for Ray so that he has less time and inclination to chew us out of house and home. 

    

    Grainy phone photo, but look at how handsome!  🙂

    I’m thinking about enrolling us in another class to help us refine our skills and shake the rust off but also thinking again about Doggy Daycare.  I know several of you use one, so I would love to hear your thoughts.  We aren’t in a larger city so our options are very limited and the only daycare around here that I know of requires the bordatella shot.  I have some mixed feelings about that but wonder if it’s worth it in order to get him some more activity.  So, interwebbers, what do you think?

    Rumor Has It

    What is “It” and who is Rumor, you ask?  Well, if you’ve read here at least once or twice, you can deduce that Rumor is a homeless soul waiting at the SPCA for her forever home.  I met Rumor recently and I can tell you, IT is loads of energy and bucketfuls of personality. 

    She was the last dog to be exercised or walked on the day I met her.  Actually there were only a few left and when I was up to her, I stopped at her kennel door and watched her bounce.  Up and down, up and down.  With a sigh, I got her leashed up and decided to make the best of it by taking her out to the play yard rather than walking around the muddy neighborhood with a jumping bean.  Let me tell you, that was the Best. Decision. Ever.  Had I decided to walk her, I probably would not have seen much of her spunky, playful personality but in the yard I quickly discovered that our girl of the week luuurves herself a game of fetch with some tennis balls. 

    We played with two so that as soon as she chased one down and brought it back, I was ready with the other and to my delighted surprise, she was so well-mannered in the exchange.  She scampered after those tennis balls back and forth, letting me take them from her and waiting really well for them to be thrown again and again.  Thoroughly delightful. 

    I hope she finds an active person or family to love and play with her because she is truly a wonderful little sprout who will truly blossom in the right place.

    If you know someone looking for a fun and fabulous little companion and can throw a mean tennis ball, have them contact the Allen County SPCA to meet Miss Rumor.

    Not Totally Wordless Wednesday

    So tonight I was practicing two things at once.  I was holding a toy above my head in order to get a good “I want it” face from Ray and I was celebrating the fact that he is maturing enough to sit and want it while exibiting a little impulse control.  Yay, Ray! Thanks for all the great feedback yesterday.  Today’s picture and your nice comments reaffirm the fact that we love our pooches so much and with great training, both formal and informal, plus perserverance and patience from us we will “get there.”

    Looking Back

    I had a couple of ideas for posting this week, but some other posts and comments that I read recently made me think about some of the lower points in the past year and how being able to share those with like- minded pet owners is such a huge relief.  I mean, having a Pit Bull type dog leaves you open for some pretty hearty preconceptions.

    On one hand, I try to keep a balance between the upside of owning and living with a Pit Bull type dog and how sometimes there are very challenging days.  I mean, there are times when I just sat and cried but didn’t post about it for fear that the words freely expressed on the internet might end up as fuel for the anti-pit bull fire so I always try to balance what I write and keep it pretty positive but sometimes you just need to get it out there and have people who are able to relate without judgement.

    Realizing that Ray hasn’t even lived with us a full year yet made me really think about the trials and tribulations we’ve endured because as I’ve stated many, many times I never wanted a puppy, but puppy I got so now we’re in it for the long haul. 

    We visited Ray and his litter mates several times while he was in foster and we were pretty sure he was our baby, after all he was so sweet and calm and cuddly.  Until he came home and it turns out he wasn’t acutally a dog but a shark wrapped in white and black fur.  Ray was a little chewy, mouthy, razor toothed shark, but luckily he was fairly easy to redirect from feet and fingers to his stuffies and chew toys.

    When we started leash walking, that was just another whole ordeal that I never want to relive.  It’s amazing that a puppy that can’t jump into the backseat of a pickup can jump high enough to rip the fabric on the upper arm of my coat, but the backseat might just be another story altogether.  My point is that reading about other really great dogs online like Miss M, Athena, Turk and Rufus and even the Chickerdoodles who all might have their own “issues” but are absolutely wonderful and entertaining dogs really makes me feel good in that we all read each other’s blogs and gain support from our online community.  No one has the perfect dog and that’s ok because they’re ours and we love them.

    ~I’m having picture uploading issues today, but hope to have it fixed soon.

    Checking in from the Sofa

    Happy New Year, everyone!  We’ve been fairly scarce on the interwebs* because I’ve been as sick as a …well you know…for the past several days.  I don’t think Ray has minded it much because it meant a lot of nursing Mom back to health  laying on Mom’s chest and cuddling on the sofa. 

    We’ve done a whole heap of sleeping this week punctuated with some serious rerun watching on television.  Have you ever noticed that there are some shows that you rarely watch but it seems like every time you flip in on you’re watching the same episode over and over again?  We found that to be true yesterday so we decided to scroll through the dvr list for a fresher rerun to watch.  Movie maybe?  Comedy, no.  Sports documentary, no.  War movie, no.  Musical, no.  It was looking like we were out of options when I found an old PBS recording of The Dogs are Alright that I hadn’t watched in ages. 

    While Ray is at home during the day we sometimes turn the TV on for “company” for him.  Usually it varies between Nick jr and classical music and he has a recording of Marmaduke that we sometimes turn on for him but I’ve never seen him very interested in the little talky box that sits on a stand.  Until last night.  I was watching this episode and Ray was standing by the door wanting to go out for the bazillionth time last night when all of a sudden his ears perked up and he rushed to the TV and started watching…
    

    Ray loves that handsome Jonny Justice!

     
     
     
    Although I didn’t catch it with my camera, these were followed by a play bow at the TV!  I’m not sure if it was just that the dogs on TV were “speaking Ray’s language” or if those charming good looks captured his attention, but Ray loved watching that show.
     

    All in all, it was very cute and rather touching to see.  (And yes, Kevin, he got down right away) I find it ironic that I first watched this show and started following the Vick dogs and BAD RAP etc way before adopting Ray and I was actually looking for a brown or black dog.  One  that looked more like Hector and Handsome Dan or Cherry and Audie…definitely not one that looked like that funny little  Jonny Justice!  Ah, karma…you got me again.

     
     
     
    *I did want to send a huge thank you to our friend, Ann, of  Pawsitively Pets for adding us to her Top 10 coolest pets with blogs of 2012.  We are honored and Ray is so flattered that is already big anvil head might not fit through the door anymore.