Two-sday

On my personal Facebook page I posted a picture of the nightly accommodations Ray and I have been sharing.

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I captioned it to the effect that he shouldn’t be going up and down the stairs so we’ve set up camp on the living room floor and we’ve been touched by all of the well wishes and concern.
You may remember that his vet diagnosed a torn acl back in the spring and recommended surgery, specifically a TPLO surgery which she is not able to perform. While expense is not an issue, I’m not yet sold on the need for this. Ray is flat out not good at the vet. His anxiety levels skyrocket and he pees himself and screams screams when he’s touched. So while his vet takes extra time with him, sitting on the floor and getting him comfortable, the diagnosis is based on an occasional limp, no x-Rays and no manual sensation. (She hasn’t felt his knee.)
The other issue is that I know his nails need to be trimmed. We do this over extended periods of time where I sneak a snip while he sleeps so it’s a never ending process. If I could get them all done and even we could better judge the limp when it occurs.
In the meantime, when we feel he needs a break, we Two camp in the living room.

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In the Interest of Fairness

I’ve known that PetSmart had BDL pretty much ever since I had Ray, so close to three years.  While I know it is wrong, I didn’t really give it too much thought for two reasons.  One, there isn’t a PetSmart doggy daycamp near us and even if there were, we wouldn’t use them.  We are so in love with the care, attention and socialization that Julius receives at Paw’s-n-Claw’s that we wouldn’t go anywhere else.  And two, it’s hard to get past the fact that PetSmart does a lot for homeless animals.  Even for homeless Bullies.

Proud to be a Pit Bull

Proud to be a Pit Bull

There’s a huge push this week to urge PetSmart to rethink their policy to reflect a more open admission that is based on temperament and not on breed/looks.

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After all, people look at these two and think “they look the same to me,” but they are as individual as a fingerprint with their own personalities, likes, dislikes and behaviors.  Neither is better or worse than the other, but they are different.  A passive solution would be to boycott PetSmart but to be honest, I don’t shop there very often at all.  I’m there more often to participate in adoption events and there have been only two instances that I have not handled a “bully” at these events.  Would PetSmart notice if I discontinued shopping there?  Nope.  Will I continue to handle dogs at adoption events held at PetSmart?  Yep, however I won’t be spending money there nor am I asking you to boycott, that is a personal choice for everyone to make individually.  I am asking you to voice your concern if you believe that all dogs should be seen as individuals.

Discrimination is discrimination and whether you would take advantage of their day care, or Pet hotel  or not, I urge you to stand against this by posting your pictures to the PetSmart Facebook page with the hastags #SeparateIsNotEqual #WhyCantIPlay #EndBDL #PetSmart

 

Happy Howl-oween

Naturally since Juli’s day care is so much fun, I knew there had to be some great festivities planned for Halloween and I wasn’t wrong. I had a couple of ideas for costumes but then like a shot it hit me.

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Julius was going to don a wig and dress up as one of his day-play buddies, Jack the black standard poodle.

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I’m pretty sure he nailed it. Do your pooches dress up for Halloween?

Tongue out Tuesday

I’ve mentioned previously how great our Pack walking group is as it relates to growth and support but nothing can compare to the feeling of love and pride I felt after our most recent walk. Not only was my hubby along that day to experience a marked growth in Julius, but after our walk as I was about to offer Dahey a treat, he came bounding to me as if we’d been friends forever!

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(My horror at being captured with a lack of make-up is negated by my joy to be kissed!)

Still "checking in" with his mama.

Still “checking in” with his mama.

So delighted to be the object of Dahey’s affections that day. What was the highlight of your weekend?

The Bully Collective-Gus’s Story

Continuing our Guest Post/Adopt a Shelter Dog/Pitbull Awareness Month/Pack Walk Success theme, our friend and the other founder of The Bully Collective, Rachel, has penned a post about her beloved Gus and the dogs he shares his life with.  (All photos provided by Rachel Hoening and credited properly.)

 

My intrigue for pitbull type dogs probably started when my sister and her husband drove from Indianapolis to New York on their first anniversary to adopt a “death-row” dog. Due to some of the house restrictions in New York, pitbull type dogs are abundant within the animal care and control facilities as well as other shelters and rescues. In an effort to help re-home some of these dogs, a Facebook page was created to advertise their availability to the public. My sister is a follower of these pages which is what led to their long-distance adoption. She couldn’t bear the thought of another healthy, well-behaved dog losing its life so, to New York they went. When she first informed me of their plans, I was a bit leery of the idea. They already had three dogs at home whom would not get an opportunity to meet the new dog prior to the trek back home to Indiana. I also knew that their time with the potential adoptees would be limited due to the circumstances. I couldn’t help but think, “what if the dogs don’t get along? Then what?” I would be lying if I said that the breed she was seeking didn’t contribute to my hesitation to support them fully in this decision. To this point in my life, my experience with pitbull type dogs had been limited and I was very aware of the negative press and connotation that seem to follow these dogs around like a shadow. Regardless of what I thought, their minds were made up so, I held my breath, hoped for the best, and anxiously awaited their arrival back to the Hoosier state.

 

Sunshine's Gotcha Day

Sunshine’s Gotcha Day via Emily Burke

Freedom Ride

Freedom Ride via Emily Burke

 

On October 16th, 2011, Sunshine officially became a member of our crazy, dog-loving family. This was also the day that my opinion of these dogs began to change. There was certainly an adjustment period for my sister, her husband, and the dogs, but that was no different than any other adoption story. She is just a dog. She is my fur-niece and I am proud to call her that. She loves frisbee, she enjoys sharing bananas with her dad at breakfast and she gives the best smooches around. She is just a dog.

Fast-forward two years…I had taken a job in Fort Wayne, Indiana at a local university that was just minutes from our local animal care and control facility. Up to this point in time, I had volunteered at several different shelters depending on where I was living while I earned my degree. I had two dogs at  home to keep me busy, but my heart was not full without having a place to volunteer. Volunteering at a shelter that has to make the tough calls and sometimes euthanize pets was never something I saw myself doing. I thought it would be too hard on me mentally and, again, I was aware of the stigma behind a facility such as this. Like Sunshine, I decided to give our local animal care and control facility the benefit of the doubt and signed up to be a volunteer. I opted to be a dog walker and transporter in an effort to keep heartache at an arm’s length. I’ve now been a volunteer at this shelter for nearly two years and I am so thankful for making the decision to do so because I probably wouldn’t be able to call myself a pitbull mom today without it.

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As a dog walker, I encounter dogs of all shapes, sizes, ages, and personalities. I really enjoy being able to gather experience handling different pups, but over time, my favorites have become the members of our Ambassador Pitbull Program. The Ambassador Pitbull Program adopts out the stray and surrendered pitbulls of our community in to responsible, loving homes where they can thrive and receive the love and care they so deserve. The pups that are placed in this program are, more often than not, the easiest to “dress” with their harnesses and collars and the easiest to walk on a leash without being pulled around the facility and grounds. Some dogs really make me work for it when I’m just trying to help them to get outside to our play yard, but never a pitbull. We all have those days where we have been through the ringer and we just need to be. From time to time, those sort of days coincide with my normal volunteer day. When this happens, if it a pitbull is available to walk, they are my go to. This is not to say that other breeds are not also exceptional, because they are, but pitbulls have clearly become one of my favorites.

Handsome Gus

Handsome Gus

By this point in time, I had met my now fiancé and our pack had already grown from two to three dogs. We had a motley crew…a small spaniel mix, an Australian shepherd mix and a Treeing Walker Coonhound. I would come home from the shelter raving about different dogs who I had worked with that evening. My fiancé would just smile and nod. She likes dogs, but hasn’t earned her “crazy dog lady” status yet. The idea of adopting another dog after the third addition was never a serious one, just something I like to torture her with.

One day while scrolling through my Facebook feed, I came across a “death-row” dog who had somehow infiltrated my page. Unlike my sister, I chose not to follow these pages because it was just too heartbreaking. Still, I couldn’t get his face out of my head and I knew his time left was short. I figured that since it worked out with Sunshine, it could work out for us too, right? It was an impulse decision, but I began filling out applications, contacting rescues, arranged a home-check…all in time to find out that someone else had beat us to him and he was safe. Relief and disappointment came over me all at once. It was also in that moment that I started paying even closer attention to the pitbulls in our Ambassador program. It wasn’t but a month or so later that a beautiful blue nose pitbull had come to the adoption floor and our adoption website. I just had to see him. When I arrived at the shelter that week, he was already being walked by another volunteer, but she let me take over when I started gushing over just how handsome he was. He had a huge noggin and was just a really well-mannered fellow. He moseyed along during our walk and was just aloof to most other sights and sounds. That night, I started begging my fiancé to go see him.

With Mom

With Mom

She didn’t want to take on another dog, especially another big dog, but because I wouldn’t stop nagging, she went and saw him anyway. As soon as she saw him, she was in love. That was it! We started working on getting all of our vet records in order, we changed our rental insurance to cover him since our previous insurance group had breed restrictions and we waited anxiously to see how the dog-to-dog interactions would go. Summitt, our spaniel mix, is notorious for being a diva. I went through three different dog-to-dog interactions with her before we landed on Cory, our Australian shepherd mix, as her new brother (pre Sadie and Gus). She did give Gus a little attitude when they first met, but he was respectful of her sassiness and let her be. The other two were more interested in the smells and sounds of the shelter than their potential new brother. Long story short, Gustafson Blue Padget became part of our family on June 26th.

Gus's Freedom Ride

Gus’s Freedom Ride

Since bringing Gus home, we’ve been mostly met with positive responses and compliments of just how handsome he is. The first time someone responded negatively towards him felt like a punch in the gut. I knew it would catch up to us eventually, but I didn’t expect it to feel the way it did. We were at a park with Gus and Sadie, our hound, when Sadie and I were approached by a mother and young girl. They said that they had beagles at home and wanted to pet Sadie because she reminded them of their dogs. We spoke briefly, Sadie got some love and they were on their way. As they walked away, my fiancé was returning from the car with Gus. I watched as the young girl pulled her mother towards Gus. Her mother pulled her away. When my fiancé returned to where Sadie and I were waiting, I asked what that was all about and she said the young girl’s mother said, “no, not that dog, honey”, when she asked to pet him. It was heartbreaking.

Regardless of situations like that, Gus has brought us nothing but joy. He is my fiance’s dog through and through. Many of you long-time dog owners will understand what I mean when I say that there is always that one dog that just seems to get you and will always hold a special place in your heart. For my fiancé, Gus is that dog. Because of him, Sunshine and the dogs in the Ambassador Pitbull Program, I will forever be an advocate for the breed. Gus slobbers when begging like Sadie, he enjoys rough-housing and playing with toys like Summitt and likes to be lazy and snuggle like Cory. He may be a pitbull, but he is not a monster. He is just a dog. Our dog.

All photos via Rachel

All photos in post provided by Rachel Hoening

 

 

Edited!  Gus and his crew DO have an instagram page, so go follow them and get that smooshie faced-goodess in your phone! At the present, Gus does not have a Facebook page, but feel free to mention in the comments how moving this story was to you. It certainly was to me! (DL)

De-Myth-Tify

The interwebs are full of information about nearly anything you want to educate yourself on and you can very easily find both sides to any story if you dig deep enough. Being that we are, of course, Pit Bull advocates I tend to read articles more geared toward how wonderful my chosen companions are.

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I love those articles that debunk myths that keep circulating which further inflame the BLS propaganda. For instance, Pit Bulls do not have locking jaws, though a friend has told me this year that their vet told them otherwise.

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But the myth I really, really want people to stop sharing is the one about the Nanny Dog.  Although there are scads of pictures from back at the turn of the twentieth century with children and their Staffies, there is no written reference to these dogs being bred or raised to be nanny dogs.

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In fact, anyone who would leave their children in the care of a dog-any breed of dog-really needs to think long and hard about the consequences.  Children and dogs are some of the cutest things on the planet but while you can often predict what certain behaviors will occur in a dog, I know for a fact that a two year old is a loose cannon.  Our human baby absolutely loves her “goggies” and all of the visiting dogs from the shelter, but believe me, she is never left unatteded with any of them.

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Julius, who is very social and good in so many situations, knows he can just get up and walk away when he’s had enough “baby time.” Ray, who tries so hard to be socially appropriate, will let the baby sit with him, but often nervously licks his lips or rolls over. We keep the interactions brief and safe for Ray so that they stay just as safe for the Muffin.

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I love my dogs and I trust my dogs, however I know that they are dogs. Nothing has happened in our home to spur this post and everyone is fine but while I’d love to say, “yeah Pitbulls are so awesome that you can hire them as baby sitters”, but that would be irresponsible and ridiculous. Until they learn to speak words and tell us they don’t like something, I need to be their voice and keep them safe.

Wordless Wednesday (redux)

I’m a dork and apparently haven’t consumed enough coffee yet.
We’ve been fortunate to be in touch with two of Ray’s three litter mates and yesterday we received a picture of the fourth, Sonny.
So, here is a collage of the four survivors of the litter and their mama, Sparkles.

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Woof for Loot!

As you know, we are occasional contributors over at the Doggyloot blog.  We answered a call to be a contributor and were selected with the thought that we could contribute at least once a month or more if we wanted.  To be honest, I used to get the daily deal emails, but just had to unsubscribe because I didn’t purchase often enough to want a daily inbox filler.  We still followed them on Facebook, fortunately so that we could see this opportunity arise.

For me, the ability to reach even more people with the message of Pit Bulls as just dogs and occasionally slipping in our passion  for volunteering and rescue was exciting.  The new list of contributors to the blog is pretty varied and there’s been a lot of good information, so I hope you’ll subscribe.  The loot on Doggyloot has been pretty awesome too, with of course, great prices.

Recently we were told Doggyloot wanted to send us a gift for being contributors and we should give them an idea of what we might like.  I perused the website and decided the sixty venison sausages would be great because I could have plenty for the boys here and still take plenty to the shelter for sharing.  Imagine my surprise when I opened the package and got not one package of sausages but three as well as this Kong Wubba, and a package of stuffies to share too!

 

Woof loot.

Woof loot.

There’s a lot of cool stuff over there so I hope you’ll go check them out. I’m pretty sure you’ll find something great.

*True, I did receive a pretty great gift but I was not asked to write about it. I just wanted to share.

The Business of Sports

It’s no secret that I’m a football fan and if you’ve seen these photos of the boys, you know who my two favorite teams are.

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Each year it seems the NFL grows bigger and more popular and has attracts an ever widening fan base. As September blows in more people park in front of their television sets and tune in to see their football heroes make the big play on the field. We look up to these larger than life players and with social media we have unprecedented access to their lives, pictures of kids, pets and in turn the players reach out to a broader base when soliciting donations for their charities and organizations.

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There are two players in the NFL that come to mind who may or may not have been beloved by their fan base to now experience being vilified by the masses but from one situation something very positive has arisen and from another something probably very unfortunate. From all the way back to the Atlanta days, I’ve never liked their quarterback who was busted in the dog fighting ring. I didn’t like the Falcons, I didn’t like his style of play and back in the day, I didn’t particularly like (or dislike) Pit Bulls. At the time, very little of what he did or what happened made an impact in my life to the point that when he ‘got his second chance’ I thought that was fine. Many people deserve a second chance, don’t they?  Well, no, not necessarily.  There’s paying for your crime and there’s the type of person who can commit atrocities in the first place.

It wasn’t until I began reading more articles about the Vicktory dogs and meeting more Pit Bulls that I understood the extent of the horrific crime against these sweet souls. Clearly his actions have now made an impact on my life’s direction and because of who he was and his “celebrity” the 51 dogs taken from his property, who are now celebrities in their own right, have blazed a trail for so many other Pit Bull type dogs who may not be alive today if not for changes in how we view these survivors. Yeah. Michael Vick. Never liked him and never will, but if not for him in a very round about way, I would possibly not be the Mommy to my two precious boys.

As a Raven’s fan, I enjoy the access to some of my favorite players and in years past have watched as Ray Rice filled back packs for area school kids and championed an anti-bullying campaign, so when news broke of the incident with his then fiancée, I was shocked and heartbroken. I mean, come on, anti-bullying campaign! The good guy, known as a momma’s boy in the best of ways was now a “woman beater” and with the breaking video has found himself (rightfully) unemployed.

A few weeks ago as office talk was centered around our Fantasy Football league, it was noted that I am usually a ‘homer’ when drafting my team and Ray Rice’s name was mentioned in the running back category. “He’s dead to me, I can’t draft him” was my response. I love watching football and will continue to be a fan while understanding that the business of the sport is that the sport is a business and the bottom line is to make money. Punishments are not always severe or timely if there are other monetary concerns and as fans we continue to feed the behemoth and people are always sorry after they’ve been caught.

/end rant.